Posts Tagged ‘business coach’

Wish your life were easier?
“Never wish that life were easier, wish that you were better.” – Jim Rohn


It’s tempting to hope for different circumstances in your life.  We all do it.

However, there’s zero value in this exercise.

This week, focus on improving one behavior that will help you excel in your current situation.

CJ

PS – If you’d like to learn how to stay focused for all of 2012, check out this link.

The power of goals
“If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up people together to collect wood and don’t assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea”

– Antoine de Saint-Exupery


Most people are obsessed with tactics and spend all of their time asking – How are we going to set up the room?  Who’s going to follow up?  What’s the best method to track our progress?

I believe that tactics are important.

However, if your goal is powerful enough the tactics will take care of themselves.  If your goal is weak, the tactics will seem overwhelming.

CJ

PS – Check out this link if you’re having trouble finding a powerful goal.

What does your coffee say about you?

Last week, I had a speaking engagement at a historic building in downtown Indianapolis.

It is a beautiful building with a lot of space for meetings.  However, it’s about 1 mile from the center of downtown and as a result, it doesn’t get much foot traffic.

Regardless, the group I was speaking for took a chance and chose this venue for their largest annual event.

After eating a light lunch, I decided to get a cup of coffee.  Unfortunately, it was freezing cold.  And no, it wasn’t supposed to be an iced cappuccino.

What’s the big deal?  It’s just a cup of coffee right?

Wrong.

In today’s hypercompetitive environment, you have one chance to exceed your customer’s expectations.  One chance.

If you blow it, your customer is one Google search away from replacing you with another option.

For your business it might be the way in which you answer the phone, the look and feel of a proposal or how quickly you respond to a question.

Whatever it is, remember that your prospect/customer notices every little detail.

How hot is your coffee?

Platinum Rule

A long time ago, someone told about the Platinum Rule – “Do unto others as they want done unto them…”

In other words, before you try and impress a client, prospect or industry find out what they want.

Makes sense doesn’t it?

Then why is almost no one living by this rule?  How come every time someone attempts to sell me something they start off by handing over a brochure?

While I’m sure there are a ton of reasons, I think that we have all become experts at talking and completely forgotten how to listen.

We are so consumed with pushing information (email, Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, etc.) that we neglect to ask ourselves the following question – “Does anyone care about what I am saying?”

What if you became the one person who listened first?

What if you put the interests of others before your own?

Why not give it a shot?

Life’s Tough
“Life’s ups and downs provide windows of opportunity to determine your values and goals – Think of using all obstacles as stepping stones to build the life you want” – Marsha Sinetar


I want life to be easy.  I never wake up first thing in the morning and think – “I really hope that today is filled with frustration and difficulties”.

You want life to be easy too.

Thank goodness for both of us life is tough, because tough times bring life’s most valuable lessons.

CJ

PS – Click here if you can’t name the most important goal you are striving to achieve by December 31, 2011.

Setting Goals & Completing Them
“The more intensely we feel about an idea or a goal, the more assuredly the idea, buried deep in our subconscious, will direct us along the path to its fulfillment.” - Earl Nightingdale


This famous quote illustrates an eternal truth - you will achieve whatever you focus on most of the time.

I have spent the last 8 years teaching individuals how to focus on their goals and have witnessed some amazing breakthroughs.

However, for every breakthrough, someone tells me that they lost focus after hearing me speak.  Frustrated, this led me to ask:

“Is there a way to help someone set breakthrough goals and stay focused through to their completion?”

8 years, hundreds of clients and dozens of workshops later I am excited to announce that the answer is YES!

Click here to learn more about a life changing experience that takes place on December 8th.

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Looking Forward – Light Bulb Moment #1

I coach leaders from sunup to sundown Monday through Friday and have been doing it for more than 8 years.

For some reason, this year has been filled with tons of “Light bulb” moments for me.  In these moments, I have had some profound breakthroughs that I know to be absolute truths.  I am confident that if you internalize these lessons, you will see great results.

It’s almost as if as soon as I hit the 8 year mark Obi Wan Kenobi sent me a text saying, “CJ, the force is strong within you…”

I’ll share some from time to time in this space.

I’ll start with one that hit me especially hard this week. I’ve noticed that some leaders want to focus on what went wrong during the past week, month, year, etc. Conversely, I have others who will briefly learn from their experiences and then go forward.

Guess which leader has more success?

I’ll admit that it’s tempting to replay past events over and over as if this obsession will change the past.

It won’t.

There is zero value in dwelling on your mistakes.

Leave the past in the past.

CJ

Blind Spot

Have you ever changed lanes in traffic and been startled by a loud horn from someone that you just cutoff?

Unless you ride the bus to work, this has probably happened to you on multiple occasions.

The problem we all have as drivers is that there is a small area that you can’t see in your rear view mirror called your “blind spot”.

What most people don’t realize is that they also have blind spots in their personal and professional lives.

These are areas where we have (and often have had for a long time) deficiencies we don’t realize.

For example, in my first few years in business I would attend many networking events.  Rarely did I meet anyone interesting and often left the event wondering why I had wasted my time.

One evening a good friend and client of mine (Larry) walked up to me and said, “Why don’t you just go home?”  When I asked why he suggested I leave, Larry told me that, “Everyone can tell you don’t want to be here.  You stand in a corner with this awful look on your face like you are better than everyone else.  Do you think people want to talk to someone like that?”

Initially, my feelings were hurt.  However, now I was aware that the reason I wasn’t getting good results from networking was because I was a jerk.

I changed my behavior and built my business attending these events.

Where’s your blind spot?

CJ McClanahan is the Founder of reachmore, which teaches small business owners how to build a business that runs without them.  For more resources on business leadership, please visit reachmore’s seminars.

Pay Attention

I often joke that business owners all have ADD and that I should serve Ritalin shakes at my workshops.

It seems as though every day we are introduced to a new method for absorbing information and data. There is an “App” for everything and these technological innovations satisfy our need for immediate gratification.

So, the question becomes, are we paying attention to the right things?

Does all of this information make us better leaders, business owners, friends, parents and siblings?

I am not sure.

However, I do know that the brain can only handle so much and perform effectively.

What are you focused on today?  Does it bring value to your business?

If it doesn’t, why do it?

CJ McClanahan is the Founder of reachmore, which teaches small business owners how to build a business that runs without them.  For more resources on business leadership, please visit reachmore’s seminars

Multi-Tasking

Last night while leaving the gym I walked past a row of treadmills with a handful of runners.

One of these individuals caught my attention.

It was a woman who was walking on the treadmill at about the same pace that I was walking to the locker room. In addition, she was holding a phone up to her ear and having a loud conversation.

I was tempted to interrupt and let her know that a gentle walk on a treadmill while talking on the phone in no way constitutes exercise.  In fact, I think you can burn more calories chewing gum.

We all feel the need to try and do 15 things at once. In fact, most people (at times including me) feel guilty when we are focusing on just 1 task at a time.

Here’s a newsflash – some activities are meant to be done by themselves, without interruptions.

Here’s a handful:

1.    Talking on the phone with someone that is important to you.

2.    Working on an important project – at home or at work – that requires intellectual concentration.

3.    Having a conversation with someone else.

4.    Sitting in a meeting.

In case you think I’m nuts ask yourself the following question – “Do you enjoy being on the phone and hearing someone typing on their computer?”

CJ McClanahan is the Founder of reachmore, which provides leadership coaching for small business and executives.  Email CJ at cjm@goreachmore.com for the latest on reachmore’s revolutionary executive coaching program, Summit.