Posts Tagged ‘speaking’

Capacity

I’d like to fashion myself as an expert in human productivity. By that I mean, I think I am beginning to get my arms around what it takes to get the most out of my clients, my prospects and most importantly – myself.

As with the engine in a car or the hard drive on a computer, every person has certain amount of capacity.  We can only work so many hours, schedule so many meetings and respond to so many emails.

Despite this truth, most people think that the key to their success is pushing beyond their capacity. We tell ourselves that the more we work, the more we will achieve, and thus the greater happiness we will experience.

But, deep down we know that it really doesn’t work like that.

Think about it.

Do you remember the first year you hit the BIG number in sales and income?  Up to that point, you’d convinced yourself that as soon as you make “X” you will be happy.

How’s that number look to you today?  What’s your new target?

Does the number really matter?

Maybe reaching and even pushing past your maximum capacity shouldn’t be the end goal.

What if instead you focused your time on a worthy objective that filled you with joy and purpose?

Relearning

Yesterday, I heard a very talented speaker (Jamar Cobb-Dennard) discuss a topic I have heard him speak on at least a dozen times. Yet, I still paid attention to the message.

Why?

Because, you can always, always, always learn something if you pay attention. Throughout his message I found myself saying “Yikes – how did I forget that fundamental?”

What do you need to relearn today?

CJ McClanahan is the Founder of reachmore, which teaches small business owners how to build a business that runs without them.  For more resources on business leadership, please visit reachmore’s seminars.

Listen to your conversation
Welcome to Monday and your week!
“Judge a man by his questions rather than by his answers” – Voltaire

Have you ever spent time with someone who seems to know everything? Rarely do they stop talking long enough to allow anyone else to say a word.

Has that person ever been you?

This week, resist the urge to have all the answers.

See what it feels like to remain quiet in your conversations.

CJ

CJ McClanahan is the Founder of reachmore, which teaches small business owners how to build a business that runs without them.  For more resources on business leadership, please visit reachmore’s seminars.

Perspective

This past weekend I visited my hometown of Denver, CO for a speaking engagement.

I scheduled an extra day in Denver because that is where I grew up and I wanted to visit some old friends. Before I checked into my hotel, I decided to swing by the old neighborhood. On my drive, I began to reminisce about my street, my home, the park where I played soccer and my old school. These were great memories.

As I turned onto my street, initially I thought I had the wrong block.  The houses were a lot closer together than I remembered. In addition, they all seemed so tiny. But, there it was, 1913 South Leyden Street, I was in the right place. The neighbors probably thought I was nuts, but I parked, got out and looked around. I clearly remember mowing this lawn and thinking that it took forever. My best friend Ricky’s house was no more than a couple hundred feet from mine.  Back in 1982 it seemed like a mile away. Pulling away from the curb I called my mom and told her that all I could remember was this big house with a big yard on a big street. It was hard for me to believe that my happy memories were from a neighborhood that I now hardly recognized.

What happened?

I’ll tell you what happened between 1982 and 2010, my perspective changed. Your happiness and contentment with life is directly related to this lens called perspective. The clearer your lens the more satisfied you will be and this satisfaction is a building block for living an extraordinary life.

Unfortunately, most of us have a warped perspective. No matter what we achieve in life it isn’t enough.

I’ve got a great strategy that will help you to gain some perspective. Give back to someone in need. Visit a homeless shelter or one of many other of non-profits in your area.

You’ll be amazed at quickly your perspective will change.

On that note, I am pleased to announce that the Reach™ Foundation is announcing our second annual campaign to support the Shepherd Community.  This summer we are going to provide back to school clothes for more than 50 middle and high school students.  Click here to find out how you can help!

CJ McClanahan
reachmore
www.GoReachMore.com
(317) 576-8492

“We are what we repeatedly do. Success then is not an act but a habit.” – Aristotle